His needs, her needs : building an affair-proof marriage / Willard F. Harley, Jr.

Includes appendixes of questionnaires and inventories.

How affair-proof is your marriage -- Why your love bank never closes -- First thing she can't do without, affection -- First thing he can't do without, sexual fulfillment -- Second thing she can't do without, intimate conversation -- Second thing he can't do without, recreational companionship -- She needs to trust him totally, honesty and openness -- He needs a good-looking wife, physical attractiveness -- She needs enough money to live comfortably, financial support -- He needs peace and quiet, domestic support -- She needs hime to be a good father, family commitment -- He needs her to be proud of him, admiration -- How to survive an affair -- From incompatible to irresistible.